Let's face it, booking a companion for the first time can be a challenge. You're not sure how everything works or what to expect, nerves are at play and questions are completely natural.
While I can't speak for all workers, I would much rather have you ask the questions than make an assumption that could make things uncomfortable further down the line.
Some people take it to the extreme and ask 50 questions in a row, purely out of nerves or lack of knowledge. In my experience, these bookings can actually be the hardest — not because the client is necessarily difficult, but because they've overthought everything so much that it becomes difficult to let the booking flow naturally.
With that in mind, here are some of the things I wish clients knew before making a booking with me because, well, it really would make both our lives a little easier.
With that in mind, here are some of the things that I wish clients knew before making a booking with me, beacause, well, it really would make both our lives so much easier.
1. You are not expected to be good in bed
No, really.
Whether you have loads of experience or absolutely none, it doesn't matter to me. When you're booking me, you're coming to see me as a professional. I'm the one who needs to know what I'm doing — you're the one who's meant to relax and enjoy yourself.
In fact, I've had plenty of people book specifically because they want to learn, gain confidence or simply have someone show them what they enjoy. So being amazing in bed is absolutely not a requirement.
2. Size doesnt matter (as much as you think)
It's a cliché for a reason.
I can't tell you how often a man has asked me whether he's too big or too small. I know it can feel incredibly important to the man in question, but I can promise you that, professionally speaking, it really isn't as important as you probably think.
There are exceptions, of course, particularly at either extreme. And just to be clear, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being particularly small or particularly well-endowed. It simply means that I may need to approach certain things a little differently.
3. You dont have to impress me
Just be yourself, be polite and respectful, and above all, be clean. Honestly, that's a pretty good starting point.
You don't need to arrive with a rehearsed personality, a list of clever conversation starters and a carefully planned idea of how you're supposed to behave.
You don't have to perform for me. Just relax and be yourself.
4.Tell me what you're actually looking for
Communication, gents. It really is that simple.
If you're seeing me for the first time, I have no idea what your preferences are, what you're comfortable with or what you're hoping to get from our time together.
So please, be upfront about your expectations. That gives me the opportunity to understand what you're looking for and make sure I'm able to accommodate your needs.
I actually prefer having a good idea of what you want ahead of time. It means I can think about how to make the most of the time we have together rather than trying to figure everything out once you've arrived.
5. Dont overthink it
Everyone has different needs, and everyone has different reasons for choosing to spend time with me.
My advice?
Don't overthink it.
Ask your questions, communicate what you need to communicate, and then leave all the worrying at the door. Allow yourself to actually enjoy the experience.
After all, it's not only your money you're spending. It's your time — and your time is always more valuable.
Still have questions?If there's something you're unsure about, you're always welcome to get in touch. I'd much rather you ask than sit worrying about whether you're supposed to know something already.